Reading the thoughts of a man isn’t easy. Is it just a fling or love thing? Are you confused whether you are loved by your boyfriend or not? When he doesn’t express his feelings, do you hate it?

Dating a guy can be pretty easy. But having to read his mind?

Well, that’s the tricky business.

Every girl wishes that she could be shown by her boyfriend, tell her he cares for her and loves her. However, the reality is that guys will not be expressive about their feelings in any way.

Here are a few signs that prove he loves you..

He will listen and remember all the details of what you’ve said

You are taken by your man so seriously he listens to each and every word that you voice from your own mouth even when it is trivial or difficult to comprehend from his perspective. Not only this, he also recalls it all.

He will hold your hand tightly

Whenever he holds your hand he will hold it firmly, he will not be shy about it in public. Occasionally when you’re crammed up in the middle of a busy place, he will hold your hand to assure you that he’s there for your protection. If a guy loves you, he’d definitely want to protect you and reassure you.

He will notice everything about you, yes even the small changes

He’s the first one to find any change in you and compliments you dress etc., for your new appearance He treats you with admiration. When a man understands your accomplishments, compliments you, makes your habits his own and places you as his first priority, he is certainly the ideal guy for you.

couple showing signs of love

He takes care of your needs

If your man truly loves you, he had always look for little ways to get your life better, be it about covering you with a blanket when you’re chilly, charging your cell phone even when you do not ask him, or serving you the better piece of chicken when you are not looking.

He uses the word “we”

If a guy loves you, he will use the “we” without even realizing it instead of saying “I” or “Me” while talking.

couple in-love

He’s very protective of you

If you’re taking a trip on your own or if you are just driving out with buddies, does he enjoy receiving your call after you get to your own destination? If your guy can relax after knowing that you’re safe, wherever you are, he undoubtedly has a particular spot for you in his heart.

He will be checking you out secretly

You might suddenly notice that someone’s eyes are fixed at you with a beautiful grin on his face. He is doing this because he wants to capture you in his eyes, when you are not about so that he is able to recall your face.

He’s very interested in your life

If your boyfriend loves you, he’ll want to talk about you. He desires to know whether your day was well spent or not. When you haven’t had a great day he shows interest in you by asking you how your day was on the job and attempts to lifts your mood. He is always eager to know more.

He can’t and won’t stay mad at you

If he has a soft spot for you he won’t be able to stay mad at you for any reason for more than a couple of hours (within reason, of course). Folks in love can’t stay mad at each other for long, it hurts both lovers too much. So if he requires the attempt to rationalize or accept your apology, he actually does care about your feelings as well as you.


Do not jump to conclusions about your guy’s love for you. After all, most men aren’t the largest romantics. However they do have really big hearts that’s full of love for you and you alone.

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